I think that people are really hesitant to talk about when they’re having a hard time, never mind admit that they might be lumped into the ‘disabled’ bucket.
We’re, uh, not great about how we treat people w/disabilities in our society. Having something that is ‘supposed to happen to other people’ happen to you is rough.
Big fan of the “how dare you don’t use professional language” vibe coming from the folks clinically discussing how to ruin what little remains of the open web.