🍹Early to RISA 🧉@sh.itjust.worksM to Greentext@sh.itjust.works · 11 months agoAnon assesses his lifesh.itjust.worksimagemessage-square69fedilinkarrow-up1391arrow-down117
arrow-up1374arrow-down1imageAnon assesses his lifesh.itjust.works🍹Early to RISA 🧉@sh.itjust.worksM to Greentext@sh.itjust.works · 11 months agomessage-square69fedilink
minus-squareWanderer@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down4·11 months agoJust choose a hobby and do that once or twice a week as your time. If she has any issues tell her to fuck off.
minus-squareTransient Punk@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·edit-211 months agoShe’s not mean, she’s just indifferent and distant. An emotional wet blanket
minus-squareWanderer@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up2·11 months agoWhat I’m saying its okay for you to do your own things. You don’t need to be around her 24/7 and something that will make you happy and recharged could be good for you both. It’s like the oxygen mask. You got to put yours on first before helping others
minus-squareFranzia@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up1·11 months agoOn the spectrum? Or the dark triad spectrum? Inb4 you tell me she’s a surgeon or one of those insurance mathematicians.
minus-squarejandar_fett@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·11 months agoMaybe try therapy? Would you she be up for that and would you? Just thinking out loud. There is usually a reason people are indifferent and distant, and if you guys had a setting you could analyze and talk about it, maybe that would be good?
Just choose a hobby and do that once or twice a week as your time. If she has any issues tell her to fuck off.
She’s not mean, she’s just indifferent and distant. An emotional wet blanket
What I’m saying its okay for you to do your own things.
You don’t need to be around her 24/7 and something that will make you happy and recharged could be good for you both.
It’s like the oxygen mask. You got to put yours on first before helping others
On the spectrum? Or the dark triad spectrum? Inb4 you tell me she’s a surgeon or one of those insurance mathematicians.
Maybe try therapy? Would you she be up for that and would you? Just thinking out loud. There is usually a reason people are indifferent and distant, and if you guys had a setting you could analyze and talk about it, maybe that would be good?