• ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 month ago

    Lmao me. Best part is even if I went out, the person I’m looking for is sitting in their room reading a book and wont be out where I am.

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          1 month ago

          Oh fuck that’s a great business model. Maybe one day I’ll open a library/cafe/bar with nice music and atmosphere

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        1 month ago

        Just any third place in general, they mostly died out during the last plague and are only starting to return to the world. If your looking for someone, go do interesting things in front of interesting people.

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        1 month ago

        I tried the library, but unfortunately my local is populated with people whom it would either be illegal and/or undesirable to date, it’s mostly kids and olds (like, grandma/grandpa old. I’m an old but not that old, I’m looking for something in a decade-size 30s), or unfortunately houseless people (and while that in and of itself isn’t necessarily a dealbreaker, it often comes with things that are in my experience, can’t be dating addicts anymore for my own health, it is what it is.)

        Bookstores maybe, and I’ve seen people in the store that I totally would love to get to know (who knows how it’d go y’know but I’m down for some coffee or something to determine compatibility beyond attraction yadda yadda), however it is my understanding that it is never appropriate to approach a woman in public and talk to her while she’s just trying to go about her business shopping, or god forbid working, anywhere.