stinky@redlemmy.com to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 2 months agoWhat are some tips for acting straight?message-squaremessage-square68fedilinkarrow-up132arrow-down110file-text
arrow-up122arrow-down1message-squareWhat are some tips for acting straight?stinky@redlemmy.com to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 2 months agomessage-square68fedilinkfile-text
minus-squarerockSlayer@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·2 months agono one is obligated to follow my advice. OP wanted advice, and my advice from lived experience of over 20 years of masking is that it isn’t worth it.
minus-squareAuli@lemmy.calinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·2 months agoWhat’s masking it though. I mean most people don’t talk about their sexuality.
minus-squarerockSlayer@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·2 months agoI’m ace, and have hidden it from partners. Needless to say it’s destroyed relationships.
minus-squareSoulg@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 months agoI get your point is that you’ve learned not to do it, but yeah that idea is terrible from start to finish. I’m sorry you had to go through it either way
no one is obligated to follow my advice. OP wanted advice, and my advice from lived experience of over 20 years of masking is that it isn’t worth it.
What’s masking it though. I mean most people don’t talk about their sexuality.
I’m ace, and have hidden it from partners. Needless to say it’s destroyed relationships.
I get your point is that you’ve learned not to do it, but yeah that idea is terrible from start to finish. I’m sorry you had to go through it either way