Because it interrupts her orgasm. The one rule is to continue what you are currently doing when the woman orgasms and don’t stop until she tells you to. Finishing together is nice yeah, but it tends to disrupt the rhythm because the man either stops or slows down. Also, in a lot of cases a woman’s orgasm is longer than a man’s, meaning most of time you start together but you finish faster, and it disrupts the rhythm as well. Lastly, a woman can finish multiple times, so finishing along with her on the first one means you need to stop, and that can be frustrating for someone who can orgasm multiple times in succession.
I personally prefer her to finish completely first, then I follow shortly after.
I guess it makes sense. I’ve got lifelong delayed ejaculation so most of the time if I cum first, the lady gets it and is cool with it since they’re the one who tap out first.
Because it interrupts her orgasm. The one rule is to continue what you are currently doing when the woman orgasms and don’t stop until she tells you to. Finishing together is nice yeah, but it tends to disrupt the rhythm because the man either stops or slows down. Also, in a lot of cases a woman’s orgasm is longer than a man’s, meaning most of time you start together but you finish faster, and it disrupts the rhythm as well. Lastly, a woman can finish multiple times, so finishing along with her on the first one means you need to stop, and that can be frustrating for someone who can orgasm multiple times in succession.
I personally prefer her to finish completely first, then I follow shortly after.
I guess it makes sense. I’ve got lifelong delayed ejaculation so most of the time if I cum first, the lady gets it and is cool with it since they’re the one who tap out first.