• What083329420@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    Personal politics, what age do they live in? Gender neutral has been the norm for quite some time. Females are welcome to exist, both as users and as developers.

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        5 months ago

        You joke but I realised I feel exactly the same about this as I do about the choice of C++, which is: deep sigh ok sure

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      5 months ago

      As a non-native speaker, I really have a lot of problems using a plural word as singular. When I read it, I always have to read twice to check whether one or more people are meant. I rather read and use “she/he” even with the additional typing.

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        Some people don’t identify as either of those. And there already is a common word that can be used for either singular or plural, which is “you.”

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          4 months ago

          And English is imprecise for “you” as well. For he/she/it grammar at least doesn’t change. Substitute that pronoun for they and suddenly the grammar switches to plural. That totally confuses me.

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            “They” can quite happily function as singular. I asked my friend about this and they gave me their opinion. They told me that they use “they” or “them” to discuss people when their biological sex is unimportant or unknown. I would like to ask them more but they have to leave. They tell me that they’ll be back later.

            They (singular) say something. He/she/it says something. They (all) say something. You (all) say something. I say something. You (singular) say something. You’ll notice “he/she/it” seems to be the irregular outlier here. English is strange.

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              “He goes”. Correct.

              “She goes.” Correct.

              “It goes.” Correct.

              “They goes.” Wrong. And that’s just confusing for people who never ever were taught that in any form of education. I know it’s an old construct and not a new innovation but for people like me it feels just off. It’s not malice on my part to act against different genders, I’m just explaining why that part of the English language is weird

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                It’s not wrong, it’s just generally offensive since colloquially “it” refers to objects rather than a individual.

                And as it follows, “it” is used as a insulting term when people want to dehumanize something.

                Also it’s “They go” and “I go”, perfectly serviceable for singular use.

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                  4 months ago

                  “I goes”. Incorrect “They goes”. Incorrect

                  You don’t understand that one is first person singular and the other is not? Is your basic English really so much worse than mine?

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              Yeah without the singular they your English is bad. Sucks for non native speakers but it’s how our language works.

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                4 months ago

                Yeah - that’s probably all true. Most people seem to cope with “you singular” and “you plural” in English but struggle with “they/them singular” and “they/them plural”. I’m not sure why.

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        4 months ago

        “they” ist kein Pluralwort. “they” ist ein Pronomen der 3. Person Singular sowie der 3. Person Plural. Das ist genau so, wie “you” ein Pronomen der 2. Personal Singular und der 2. Person Plural ist.

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          “they” ist kein Pluralwort.

          And yet the grammar attached with its use is plural and that’s super weird. “They goes to the store” is just wrong.

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        you don’t understand the language and thus everyone should comply with you? i’d rather read correct english than what you find more understandable

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          You obviously understand English to a lesser degree than me. I nowhere wrote that I made demands to comply with me. Where on earth do you get that idea that offering a perspective is a demand?

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            4 months ago

            then use “they”, do you speak exclusively with yourself? your linguistic choices affect others, just like others’ linguistic choices affect you (as you were noticing and complaining about)

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              4 months ago

              then use “they”

              After 30 years of education saying otherwise it is not so easy.

              do you speak exclusively with yourself?

              I don’t speak English with others at all. I’m not in an English speaking country.

              your linguistic choices affect others

              Having a hard time grasping completely new concepts is not a choice.

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      The issue is 3 years old, I honestly dont know why it is being dredged up again. I also dont know why any of this matters, use something else if you care about the dev beliefs some years ago.

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        The Ladybird browser, which is highly related to this project, just did a PR event yesterday. That’s why it’s coming up years later, right after people were alerted to the project and it got more scrutiny. I appreciate knowing about this, as opposed to not knowing about it. It gives me the chance to evaluate whether I want to dedicate energy into supporting a browser primarily being developed by a sexist who thinks not being a cis male == politics.

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          Primarily being developed by someone who was most likely a sexist, three years ago, and who is now being dogpiled by people who probably weren’t ever going to use his software anyway.

          If anyone really cared about this, they should just fork the code and start their own inclusive version. Literally steal the asshat’s project out from under him. Instead, everyone is coming out of the woodwork to try and score asinine dunks on the dev’s shitty opinion.

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            For me personally, this is just the straw that broke the camel’s back. I’m not a fan of the languages it’s written in, its license, its immaturity, and that it’s mostly being developed by one person. Additional minor strike for communicating through discord. Now we learn that the most influential person on the project has some real bad vibes and it’s probably best to give this a pass as a whole.

            In my eyes the whole selling point of the browser is being an independent underdog with a clean slate, but what’s the point if we’re starting with a list of IOUs for things that are already bad out of the gate.

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        Because trolls have nothing better to do.

        e: truth hurts, trolls