• Jeena@piefed.jeena.net
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    7 months ago

    The lesbian woman got sterelized in case she gets raped so it doesn’t result in pregnancy. That’s … wow.

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      7 months ago

      If you read to the end, the article mentions that the first time Ferst tried to get sterilized (and her old doctor was being difficult) she still had a male partner. I think she’s bisexual.

  • dactylotheca@suppo.fi
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    7 months ago

    Any predictions on how long it’ll take for conservatives to start outlawing sterilizations for women?

    • NegativeInf@lemmy.world
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      7 months ago

      My friend with severe PCOS and who would never be able to be pregnant had the hardest time already trying to get a hysterectomy at 28. Even asked about her future husband being ok with this decision.

      So we aren’t that far off already.

  • afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    Part of the reason why I am getting my daughters citizenship abroad. One day, I hope that day never ever comes, they might need it.

  • MeatPilot@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    Hard truth for folks to understand is people actually fuck because it’s fun and a healthy part of a relationship.

    This is what happens when you have no alternatives left to manage accidents and don’t want to live like a nun or monk.

    • abbiistabbii@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      7 months ago

      Oh they understand people fuck, and the people who want to ban abortion and contraception want people to have kids they didn’t want for various reasons.

  • 0110010001100010@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    The number of young men getting vasectomies also shot up, but men still get sterilized much less often than women.

    I got mine in September. I’d kicked the can down the road for years but finally pulled the trigger largely because of Roe being overturned.

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      7 months ago

      I was broke as hell and the vasectomy was going to cost $700.

      I finally saved $700, and when I went in they said “shit dawg, you’re broke as hell. Here is this program to make it free”

      So even if you can’t afford it, try reaching out to your local planned parenthood. They know how to navigate the benefit system better then you.

  • binomialchicken@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    7 months ago

    Blows my mind that vasectomies are the less common procedure. Got mine done cheaply many years ago. Super easy, barely an inconvenience.

    Partner got tubes done recently (so that insurance couldn’t deny her for medically necessary hysterectomy later, what a dumb system we have) and she was miserably bedridden for quite a while, with the scars to prove it. Would have been expensive if she wasn’t maxed for out-of-pocket already.

    Anyone have a sane explanation?

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      7 months ago

      Toxic masculinity, all my friends that don’t want to be convinced have the worst excuses possible but most times it’s about not wanting to feel like a lesser man.

  • Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    7 months ago

    Dear young men. Get a vasectomy. You don’t want to raise children in a doomed future, plus it might do wonders to your dating profile.

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      7 months ago

      As it turns out most men and women aren’t weird doomer weirdos who spend a considerable amount of their lives being miserable online. Most people want families, and there’s nothing wrong with that.