per Wikipedia Conchita identifies as a gay man. Although they may enjoy dressing as and presenting as a woman, inside Conchita identifies as male regardless of hobbies.

As a NB person I can assure you it’s not the same for me. When i’m wearing a skirt I don’t feel like a male in a skirt, I feel like the female parts of me are being allowed to be free a bit and it feels absolutely amazing! I don’t get enough feminine gender affirmation and I crave it tbh.

My own situation is confounded by external factors but i’m definitely not a man or a woman but an amalgam of both, inside.